Highly recommended
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As far as I know, only the Gottmans' relationship recommendations are so solidly based on research. I've admired their work for over a decade. Above all others of its ilk, it is this book, with its proven techniques, that I highly recommend to clients with marriage problems.
Unfortunately, most people with relationship problems lack the motivation to follow these excellent suggestions. They are too invested in being right. Most people would rather be right than happy. Too bad.
For those people (which of course includes me, far more often than I would like), I recommend "To Love is to be Happy With" by Barry Neil Kaufman. Happiness is a choice, as Kaufman's wonderful little book spells out so clearly.
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