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Author: Torey L Hayden  
ISBN: 0399126023   /   Paperback
Publisher: Putnam Pub Group (T)   /   1981-03
List Price: £6.08
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an excellent book     
whilst reading this book i had a mix of emotions. At times i laughed untill i couldnt laugh anymore and at times i wanted to cry. this book tells the memoir of torey Hayden and four children she had the privelage to look after. these children came from unimaginable backgrounds but Torey seemed to make their lives feel better. i loved reading this book and i would recommend this book to anyone. i would love to see what her other books have in store for a reader like me.
An honest and moving story     
This book concerns 4 children, each with their separate issues who are brought together under the care of a loving teacher for a period of time in which each child faces their fears in one way or another.

One girl cannot read due to severe beatings by her father which left her with brain damage, and at times during the book, I wanted a miracle to appear on the pages, I wanted to read that her disability had been overcome, (it never did) yet that was the beauty of the book in a way, it was honest and real, and if there had been a magical answer to everything I as the reader would not have experienced such raw emotions. I found the part where Boo is in hospital particularly harrowing.(I have purposely left out the details so as not to spoil it for someone who had not read the book)

At the end of the book I pondered the outcome for a while. It made me appreciate that we are not one life, but several, because whatever happens to each one of us; Loris inability to read, or Boo's autism as examples, affects so many people in the life around us.

It is a heartwarming book and well worth reading.

Both Sides Now     
This book explores the flexibility and individuality in teaching. Different approaches to teaching mainstream as well as students with special academic needs are examined. One teacher, identified as "Edna Thorsen" is recognized as having a long established career in conventional teaching methods, but little if any experience with special academic needs. As alarming as her treatment of and response to a 7-year-old pupil identified as "Lori" was, it points up to how "Edna" was also a victim of a system. This shows how both sides, teacher and pupil were challenged by an established system.

I loved it when Torey Hayden made it plain that sacrificing people (in this case pupils) in order to maintain a system is wrong. The author is a person of incredible courage and it is to the credit of the school administrators to acknowledge the work she did with her four resource room students.

One theme that is recurrent in this book is the need to adapt to the needs of each child. Since only a fraction of one side of the story has been presented, it is only fair to realize that most of what took place is not information that will be made available to readers. This is to protect the privacy of the real people who have consented to have their stories shared.

Since this class came together in or about the 1970s, it is only fair and reasonable to recognize that the people involved were using the tools and resources they had available to them at the time. It is impossible to apply current knowledge to a bygone era. Without knowing any of the people personally, it seems cruel and unfair to pronounce harsh judgment against anyone who did not have the professional background necessary to help students with special academic needs. It seems just as cruel, judgmental and unfair to put ANY child up on a pedastal. Vilifying Edna and glorifying Lori is tiresome and counterproductive. The only real villian is the lack of information. Lori and Edna are only people who were coping with some overwhelming issues from the telling. This book is not an allegory about good and evil and Lori and Edna are not representatives of either concept.

The other children who make up the resource room with Lori are Claudia, who is 12 and pregnant; Tomaso, an 11-year-old boy whose early life was a litany of domestic violence, abandonment and the traumatic murder of a parent and Boo, a 5-year-old boy whose behavior is described as autistic. What makes this book so effective are the accounts of how the children interacted with one another and drew stength from one another. I like the way they worked together as a group.

God bless Torey Hayden and the four pupils she had that year. This book is a good eye opener in fairness and forgiveness.

Both Sides Now     
This book explores the flexibility and individuality in teaching. Different approaches to teaching mainstream as well as students with special academic needs are examined. One teacher, identified as "Edna Thorsen" is recognized as having a long established career in conventional teaching methods, but little if any experience with special academic needs. As alarming as her treatment of and response to a 7-year-old pupil identified as "Lori" was, it points up to how "Edna" was also a victim of a system. This shows how both sides, teacher and pupil were challenged by an established system.

I loved it when Torey Hayden made it plain that sacrificing people (in this case pupils) in order to maintain a system is wrong. The author is a person of incredible courage and it is to the credit of the school administrators to acknowledge the work she did with her four resource room students.

One theme that is recurrent in this book is the need to adapt to the needs of each child. Since only a fraction of one side of the story has been presented, it is only fair to realize that most of what took place is not information that will be made available to readers. This is to protect the privacy of the real people who have consented to have their stories shared.

Since this class came together in or about the 1970s, it is only fair and reasonable to recognize that the people involved were using the tools and resources they had available to them at the time. It is impossible to apply current knowledge to a bygone era. Without knowing any of the people personally, it seems cruel and unfair to pronounce harsh judgment against anyone who did not have the professional background necessary to help students with special academic needs. It seems just as cruel and unfair to put ANY child up on a pedastal. Vilifying Edna and glorifying Lori is tiresome and counterproductive. The only real villian here is the lack of information. Lori and Edna are only people who were coping with some overwhelming issues from the telling. This book is not an allegory about good and evil and Lori and Edna are not representatives of either concept.

The other children who make up the resource room with Lori are Claudia, who is 12 and pregnant; Tomaso, an 11-year-old boy whose early life was a litany of domestic violence, abandonment and the traumatic murder of a parent and Boo, a 5-year-old boy whose behavior is described as autistic. What makes this book so effective are the accounts of how the children interacted with one another and drew stength from one another. I like the way they worked together as a group.

God bless Torey Hayden and the four pupils she had that year. This book is a good eye opener in fairness and forgiveness.

IN THE INTEREST OF FAIRNESS     
This book is yet another sterling account of Ms. Hayden's work with children. The pupils assigned to her resource room featured in this book are Claudia, who is 12 and pregnant; 11-year-old Tomaso who witnessed his father's murder, 7-year-old Lori whose father battered her during her infancy causing residual brain damage and Boo, 5 whose behavior is described as autistic. Early in the book, Lori's teacher, "Mrs. Thorsen" is recognized as being an excellent teacher with an established history in conventional teaching methods. The only real villian is lack of information. Vilifying Edna and extolling Lori is tiresome and counterproductive. This book is not an allegory about good an evil and Edna and Lori are not obverse sides of a coin representing morality. Their stories are stories about fairness and compassion.
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