Unforgettable
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The Good Women of China begins with a prologue that ends with this phrase: "When you walk into your memories, you are opening a door to the past; the road within has many branches, and the route is different every time."
The plot of the novel contains a series of real stories told to the author by Chinese women she interviewed while working as a journalist in China. From the young woman who kills herself because her lover is taken away from her to the Japanese national whose family is broken apart by the Cultural Revolution, to the mothers and wives who lost their families in the 1976's earthquake, to Xinran's own history, the book is a gold mine of female experiences and female struggles. It touches on too many subjects to count, from women's role in society to the importance of literacy for women and homosexuality. I wept, I giggled and I can easily say that this is the most powerful book I've read in a long time.
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touching
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I've never had a problem getting into Xinrans' books, i first read this when i was quite young, some parts horrified me and made me cry but only because i was abused too and yet their stories were more horrific than my own. I love this book, it opened my eyes to things i'd never heard of and would have thought "nah, it wouldnt happen" in such a blankly dismissive way. this is the first book i'd read of chinese origin but as soon as i started to read i had no doubts about whther i'd be able to get into it OR after that, when i hadn;t any doubts as to whther i should buy Sky Burial or not. Now i feel i simply HAVE to read Miss Chopsticks. So far Xinran' stories havent done me wrong and i enjoy them as muh i pobbisly could, though what would be even better would be is all women and girls everwhere were safe and happy.
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One of the best books I've ever read
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The premise and the prologue are intriguing, and the rest of the book thoroughly delivers. Xinran Xue tells the stories of several women, as diverse in social and economic backgrounds as the country itself, who all have one thing in common: they have suffered. Whether bereavement, sexual abuse, discrimination or neglect, often more than one, Xinran weaves their experiences into a harrowing narrative with an underlying thread of love and sorrow. This book is an utterly devastating account of women's lives in China and must be read.
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Listen and wake up!
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Xinran's written words are like spending time with a precious friend and hearing her confide painful life secrets to you. Xinran's pages are so alive, poignant and she astonished me with many details of situations we just take for granted in a western world. She writes factually with a warm narrative style of Chinese women's struggles with retaining their beliefs, moral values against the subjugation to communism. The length of each story/chapter is as long as you can bear because of the heartbreaking topic, which nonetheless is never a tear-jerker. In spite of the moving accounts of simple, sage, young and old women from all over China, her book is a real page turner - I read it from cover to cover in one day and carry her evocative portrayals in my daily thoughts. I enthusiastically recommend this book to any reader interested in the quality of life, woman's role, strength of survival and accounts of contemporary China.
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There, but for the grace of God, go I.
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Even allowing for the fact that Xinran has no doubt selected the worst, most harrowing stories, this is still an eye opening account of the suffering of many Chinese women.
I think what struck me most was how others would just stand and stare, feeling that a man beating his wife, for instance, was just 'keeping his house in order'.
Similarly, during the cultural revolution, people humiliated and abused for being intelectuals or owning foreign goods were seen to be getting what they deserved. Worse still, their children were also abused, often sexually, just because of who their parents were.
Women often had no control at all over their own lives; what a frightening thought.
Thank goodness things are changing now and womens lives are gradually improving. The first and largest step is for them to have a voice and I admire Xinran's efforts to help them in their cause.
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